After two years of intense investigation and meditation we have come up with the idea that the emerging social value has logic. The shocking part is based in an utterly "absurd" seeds.
The last night my partner was impressed when she started reading "The 48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene due to it harshness. She stated something like "People can crush people and reach the power but studying how to do that is a terrible thing". In fact people that get want they want (even if they beat everyone that crosses them path) are viewed as very high status while people studying war-related topics are teared apart as manipulative in most of the cases.
There are five factors behind the apparent evidence that explains the social interactions and constructions. Apparently, everything is illogical when trying to studying a single effect in a situation. When the scenery doesn't seem illogical at least seems too complex and the observer normally falls in the trap of demanding a complete solution. Why does it happen? Because we tend to observe the details and we are usually not well trained to identify the hidden principles of the interaction, as determined by Howard Bloom in "The Lucifer Principle": Replicators, Super Organism, The Meme, The Neural Net and the Pecking Order.
When you want to really change something in your life or in the world (or try to understand something) it's important that you start the quest with those concepts; otherwise you'll remain reactive forever. Let me explain that.
Those pillars support everything. Imagine you want to have a more abundant sexual life, more freedom in your job, better relationship with your family or your own business. Instead of working hard blindly towards those targets, question those pillars. It's the only way to transformation.
People who have those pillars aligned with their own objectives have a strong sense of Self-Worth (truly it meet to me that those parameters alone can be a definition of the term "Self-Worth"). Also, they will respond against those whose actions can weaken that pillars. Here comes the fun thing: That response is totally normal and accepted by society. Now let's see the same person responding the same way, only one difference: He is studying hard to identify the undermining of the situation (or at least he is aware of) so "he is manipulative", people that deeply know him can suspect that but the real problem is coming from inside, he can feel that way. When he feels that way he often sends signals of his inner suspicion, the environment responds that way and the inner feeling reinforces itself, the housecard collapses. On the other side, the naturally Self-Worth guy reinforces the opposite because he has no flaws because he is not even aware of the housecard. His performing tends to infinity. The Self-Worth lenses of the subject controls the minds around.
Lately I see Zahavi's "Handicap Principle" everywhere, it's like I'm getting crazy. I have a theory: people with strong sense of Self-Worth, naturally activates the "Handicap Principle" status recognizing system that's ingrained naturally in all of us. It happens because those people have a big gap between behavior (that inspires deservedness) and real achievements. Then, people around then to backward rationalize everything he does as good considering his high status.
The natural one claims not to be "satanic" nor have a rebellious streak, he create shrouds against "satanic" thought. He uses the "How dare are you" attack when the conversation is about social dynamics and every psyop H. Michael Sweeney is capable of recognize everytime. By the way, what the hell is "satanic"? What is an inappropriate behavior? Only empty words created by the natural manipulator (that knows what the appropriate behavior is, for sure).
This is true because otherwise hardware engineers from Intel will get laid more than the mediocre musicians are we used to.
It usually was viewed as an absurd effect but now, if you are aware of this deep mechanism, you can control it. I'm not able to enter the brain complexity trying to offer a more based description but I want to underline that the 90% of the brain is used to unconscious synchronization issues (as Howard Bloom claims), this can be explanatory. On the other side I can say one thing: I'm happy knowing this because it offers results.
If you are here you probably know about Real Social Dynamics. A corporation derived from the seduction community started by Ross Jeffries, with an impressive analytical ability about social relations, big part due to Tyler Durden, a very prolific member. In his last work "The Blueprint Decoded", he brings up this subject and don't resolve it (maybe it can't be resolved) but isolates it:
To be really phenomenal in this area you have to behold the paradox in your mind and not be bother by the paradox. On one level you can know what's going on like you can see "ok, that is going on" but on another level in fact you assume people are good nature, friendly …
The best way to handle the dilemma it's to see the reality shaped with continues layers and the Self-Worth lenses like depth parameter.
One more reminder: The prescription is to be applied to you only. If you know what will happens when viewing the world through high Self-Worth lenses and what misery will remain otherwise, now you can decide.





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